𝚃𝙷𝙴 𝙾𝙽𝙻𝚈 𝙿𝙴𝚁𝚂𝙾𝙽 𝚃𝙷𝙰𝚃 𝙲𝙰𝙽 𝚂𝚃𝙰𝙽𝙳 𝙸𝙽 𝚈𝙾𝚄𝚁 𝚆𝙰𝚈 𝙸𝚂 𝚈𝙾𝚄.
It’s not your circumstances, the hand you’ve been dealt, other people or what you don’t have that’s giving you what you feel you aren’t getting in your life. It’s you. Everything comes down to you.
Your attitude, your choices, your beliefs, your actions. These create your life, nothing else. All on you.
It’s a hard pill to swallow when you realize that blaming everything else for why you aren’t getting what you want isn’t the actual reason you aren’t getting it.
A couple of years ago, I blamed the lack of growth and engagement in my business on the fact that social media changed. I grew a Facebook page to 50k people back in the day and in a matter of days, I was barely reaching 10 people. It took me a lot of time and mental effort to get to a place of realizing that things outside of me will always change and be out of my control. What’s in my control is how I respond to it. No one owes me anything. I had to learn to discard entitlement and embrace hard work and self-responsibility.
My inside world. That’s what’s in our control always. And we have to consciously claim that. Claim > blame.
The longer you look at everything else as the reason behind why you’re not getting what you want, the longer you’ll continue not getting what you want.
The only thing you actually have control over is where you stand in your life. Are you in the way 🙅🏼♀️or are you paving the way💃🏼
Be honest with yourself and take full responsibility for your life. It’s your life and no one else can change it but you. When honesty becomes present, you build a foundation for yourself based on truth⛰ From that foundation, anything is possible🌈 I’m working on that in my business, in my beliefs about myself and in what I want in my life. It’s a process. Swallow the pill, turn your attention on you and walk forward as the leader of your life. Own it.
This is where change becomes possible.